Archive for May, 2005

season of breakups

Sunday, May 29th, 2005

It’s seems like its a season of breakups. 3 of my close female friends had called it quits finally. My friend let’s call her AAA have been with this guy (who is also a good friend of mine) for the longest time, if i remember correctly 5 or 6 yrs.They met way back in college.I must admit that i witnessed the blow by blow account of their major arguments and problems in their relationship. My other friend, let’s call her BBB was been with this guy for about 5 yrs.and has a on and off kind of relationship.They just got back together because well obviously they still love each other.But this time it’s different, BBB was so fed up that he can’t stand the problem he’s been having with this guy all this time.And the third,let’s call her CCC- well i must say this is the shortest in the three,3months.I think he’s 7 yrs older than my friend and they met at work. This is the chick boy type and the rest is history i should say..Because I think  you can already tell what happened… hmmm

Bottomline is these people are close to my heart that’s why i’m saddenned and affected at one point or another by this things…Hayy what a life!!!

being single

Tuesday, May 10th, 2005

Message:

Being single is better than being married to an
insecure husband
or a quarrelsome wife.

To marry an irresponsible, insecure, or
insensitive or even
violent man is to enter into a most miserable
life. The same as
marrying women who are rebellious, unsubmissive,
quarrelsome and
impossible to please.

Husbands are divinely mandated to be the head of
their families.
When a husband is unqualified to lead the family,
the marriage
will be unhappy. For a wife to submit to an
irresponsible
husband is fir her to serve under an incompetent
boss all her
life.

On the other hand, a quarrelsome wife is an
unbeatable burden. A
nagging wife is as annoying as a leaking faucet
that goes drip,
drip, drip while you are trying to sleep!

With these situations, the partner (husband or wife)
will just
say in the end, "If only I had not married you, I
would have
accomplished much more in life!"

WE TAKE RISK IN MARRYING BUT FINDING A
GOOD PARTNER IS A GIFT
FROM GOD

Struggles of being unmarried

Singles have to struggle wit loneliness, unfulfilled
sexual
desires and the longing to have their own children.
As an
unmarried grow older they feel more keenly their
seeming
vulnerability as they face life alone. They have no
children to
take care of them in their old age.
The unmarried may not rightfully enjoy sexual
intimacies. But
the Lord does not deny anyone something good
without giving him
another good thing in return. In the broad sense of
life,
everything is a trade-off. A lot of singles have
succeeded on their careers.

Compensations of Singles

1. May go anywhere anytime at a moment’s notice!
2. May eat wherever, whenever and with whoever!
3. No baby sitting jobs
4. Need not share the ownership of her/his body
with someone!

Happiness is not dependent on being married!

Happiness is peace of heart. Peace of heart is the
inner
satisfaction of knowing that we are in right
relationship with
God and with others. Life need not be half-fulfilled if
you are
not married
Enjoy every day as it comes. Do not postpone your
happiness hoping for marriage or other desires to
come in the future! Happiness is not the pot of gold
at the end of the rainbow. Rather, it is in the little
flowers that you pass by. Take time to savor the
simple pleasures that the Lord brings you daily- a
fond smile, an appreciative letter, a little gift from a
friend. Marriage could come any time. There may
be an age limit to bearing to children but there is
no age limit to getting married especially to being
happy!!!
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words in black from William Girao
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with the BOYS..

Saturday, May 7th, 2005

May 6,2005 Friday, My work goal that day was to pick up all the cd samplers that I need for the show from different record company ( like Warner,Sony,Dyna & MCA). I had a service van naman so it’s ok, but the problem is, it’s too hot and i feel super sticky not to mention the long unreasonable U-turns slot, smoke belching machines(vehicles) and a super heavy traffic. Sa sobrang trapik hndi ko na tuloy naabutan si Paolo (from Dyna Records)sa office nila sa Strata 200 sa Ortigas to pick up the cd. So he told me to meet him na lng sa Gasoline Alley sa Robinson’s Galeria.Ofcourse i agreed.

That night, i got a chance to meet 3 Allan’s….Alan Pyque (friend of Paolo,who works as a producer at Dyna and a lyricist of songs like Tell me,Kahit Isang Saglit,Ana & Si Aida o si Lorna o Si Fe), Allan  Hernandez (Managing Editor of FHM & guitarist of the goth band Late Ysabel) and last but not the least Allan Madrilejos ( the new Editor-in-Chief of FHM magazine).

I had a great time meeting these cool guys. As in super, i never thought i would be sitting next to these kind of people. Actually nag-iinuman kami habang nakikinig sa bandang Subliminal.Grabe ang cute nung humahawak ng k-hon….sobra,ang cute na ang galing pa kumanta.

Nakaka aliw sila kausap… sobra.They are really just one of the boys. And i discover and learn many things about their work.

That night was filled with clean fun,cold beers and good music.I really had blast knowing and being with these guys..And i hope to see them around someday and grab some beer just like that night…

my new cd

Wednesday, May 4th, 2005

At last i finally got the chance to buy the acoustic album of the soul siren diva Nina entitled Nina Live! This albums has 19 tracks, my fave tracks are ofcourse Loves Moves in Mysterious Way,Through The Fire,Coloured Kisses,I Don’t Want To Be Your Friend and At Your Best….Next time i go to a record store and have a dime ofcourse i hope i could buy Spongecola’s album.

I’m proud whenever i got the chance to buy original cd’s these days because of economic reasons…that’s why i only buy cd’s that i really like and can listen to over and over again..

beauty queens, as a person

Monday, May 2nd, 2005

Last weekend i got the chance to be with real life beauty queens, from the likes of Joyce Garcia,Ms.Earth title holder, Christine Caballero,Ms. CLose-Up Smile- Ms.Phil., Jaime and April. Sorry guys i forgot their last name.But i promise i’ll edit this blog for their infos.   They were the judges in the Search for Ms.Calatagan 2005 in Batangas wherein i’m the production staff.After the event we stayed at Golden Sunset Resort in Calatagan, Batangas owned by Mother Ricky Reyes, my boss. ;)

At first, i was starstruck by their beauty and felt intimidated by their presence. But as i got the chance to get near them,to talk and laugh with them, i got acquainted and felt at ease. They’re really not snob at all,a primadonna or brat as i imagined them to be.

I’ll try to share to all of you some of my personal experience/encounters with these beautifil ladies..oryt!!! Between the 4, Jaime is more of the smiling face so i thought she’s the nicest.But ofcourse it turned out that they were all nice naman pala.She even got a tattoo on her back.When we were in a stop over, we went to a store to buy some snacks, she even asked me " ano kayang mas masarap?!" (she was referring to the chips between Korneto or Tortillos), I answered "ung Korneto" then she went to the counter and bought it.Si Joyce naman parang suplada at maldita during the contest. Maybe because she’s the mestiza type.I don’t know.Pero after the event she was very jolly and kalog.Kasundo nya ung mga make-up artists and the other staff (sympre kasama na ako dun..) She even begged me for a shampoo because she forgot to bring one.The truth is isa lang talaga ung dala ko, pero nung hiningi nya, sabi ko "cge na, nga pero hahanapin ko pa sa bag". Eh ung bag ko malayo dahil andun pa sa room namin which is 10 minutes away from the swimming pool wherein we were talking.Sabi nya " cge ate sasamahan kita.." Tapos she’s very generous and all,kasi naka unlimited Globe sya..Kahit sinong gustong humiram ng cel nya pinapahiram nya.. She’s cool and sweet…Si April naman,she’s pretty, simple and unassuming,parang walang arte sa katawan. Kung meron man,effortless.She’s always ready to give smile to anyone.There’s this person teasing her na " hmm pangit naman bf mo eh". Pero sya smile lng. So i asked her if i can see her bf’s picture sa cel nya.So pinakita nman nya sa akin…actually pareho type namin, parang mga bad boy look.So sabi ko sa knya "cute naman pala" , she smiled then yun friends na kami.I remembered when were already on our way home sa coaster she even mentioned my name.It means she remembered db?! And i think that’s sweet. Si Christine naman, nag breakfast kami ng sabay and she was talking about her suitor..She also has a tattoo on her back. Cool sya! At magkatabi kami on our way home from Batangas to Manila. I shared with  her my cd walkman, ang cool kasi she liked the cd that was playing, and she’s into the music that i listen to..Sometimes i glanced at her and i catch her humming Tattooed On my Mind, Officially Missin’ You, Into To You, Because of You and Family affair.

The truth is marami akong nalaman about their life na hndi ko na lahat ikinuwento dito..

But all in all, i had a great time being with these beauty queens. They’re not only beautiful on the outside but also in the inside. And the most of all, I’ve realized they are also real people just like you and me. After knowing all these, i will never see them in the same light the way i used to see them before.